Well now the week I have been waiting for is finally upon us: we move on Friday and though I am up to my eyes in boxes and muddling through the packing up process all by myself because Ste is working such long hours, I am giddy with excitement and simply cannot wait to begin the process of making our new house a Brocante Home. We followed the recommendations of friends when it come to choosing a realtor to help us, and there were so many recommendations made but the infamous Eddie Yan stood out to us.
There are of course mixed emotions… some of me feels as though I am abandoning my Mum here in the bungalow. That she will be forever alone once we have packed the final boxes in to the van we have hired and I can’t seem to quite put this plainly silly idea to bed, though the rational me knows I carry her with me wherever I go. Finley is woeful about moving: flinging himself between crying and raging and accusing me of all manner of things from having stupid hands (?) to failing to provide him with the security of a permanent residence over the past three months between selling our little house and moving in to the next one! And Ste meanwhile is thoroughly non-plussed and though I have tried to instill the spirit of
And so in-between stroking the head of a sad boy with a permanent tummy ache and sending Ste to the tip whenever he can spare half an hour, I am getting on with the business of packing everything from hangers to hammers, spending many an hour trying to decide which of Mum’s belongings need to cherished in our next home and which can be safely recycled – and indeed trying to make the whole business as puttery as possible…
To that end I have been making Ste simultaneously giggle and roll his eyes with my rather lovely “Moving House Box” which I am stuffing with all the teeny things I need to transform the shell of a (lovely) house into a place that feels like home and from a practical point of view (for I can be oh so very practical from time to time!) gathering all those fiddly little things I don’t want to hunt around for on moving day. It is so stressful moving house, trying to get everything in order, so we wanted to make sure we got a top moving company to help us get all our lovely house stuff in order! It’s not just the process of putting your whole life in boxes that can be stressful. It’s also finding a home that you want to move to that can be a lot for anyone to deal with on their own. No wonder why some people check out sites like williampitt.com to hopefully make finding their dream house a lot easier. Plus, who wouldn’t want the help of real estate experts, as they’ll be able to give anyone good advice to do this properly. It’s something I sort of wish I had looked into more, but I know for next time (if I ever move again).
Anyway, you want to know what’s in my box? My favorite Amber Noir candles. A few bottles of Hyacinth Zoflora (the fragrance of home). A packet of good
So yes: I am almost ready. Today I am laundering all the bedding ready to be thrown on to the beds on the first night, placing a food shopping order for delivery the morning after we move in and spending lots and lots of time snuggling Alfie because I am going to miss him so very much but know he will be more than happy in the bedlam of Helen’s house with my Dad, the dogs, and the boys.
Tomorrow the WiFi will be switched off here and sadly Sky has not yet confirmed when it will be switched on in the new house so service here at
This m’dears feels to me like the end of one chapter and the start of a new, happier one. Life has been intensely difficult over the past years and I am so very ready to move forward and live the kind of life I have long been designing in my head.
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Good luck with moving, Alison! I hope it goes smoothly. And very best wishes for life in your lovely new home. 🙂
Praying for a peaceful, joyful move. Transitions are hard but I am excited at that we will share the fresh energy that you will have in setting up your new, happy home!
Can’t wait to hear about (and see?) the new home! Best of luck with the move!
Here’s to a most pleasant and easy move to your new home. It will all be worth it.
You’re almost there! So happy for you.
I am ashamed to say there is still a moving box in the garage that we have never unpacked, 15 years on. And I know exactly what is in it; the china we saved from Peter’s Mum’s house when she died and I (at 8 months pregnant) was clearing and choosing. There are engraved glasses that I know i want, but wouldn’t use when the kids were small (not dishwasher safe, either… but just right for my bedtime water) and a photoframe or two… probably of David as a baby, since she never knew the other two.
Steve is right, a house is a house. Your home is where you are and I know by the time you have Brocanteed your house it will be your home. Have fun… when it’s all over!
Good luck today Alison! Wishing it all goes well and life can settle down again for you.